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Oftentimes, when we see hyper successful women killing it at work, they are stuck in their masculine, leaving them in a cycle of exhaustion, resentment and burnout. When women find themselves stuck in the masculine, the sexual polarity in their relationship becomes unbalanced. This unbalance is...

When we think of sex drive in heterosexual relationships, we’ve been taught through messaging that men are meant to be the aggressors, and that women are meant to be the shy ones. This messaging we’ve experienced does a major disservice when you (the woman) have the higher sex drive...

We’re back with another instalment of answering your most asked sex questions (read Part 1 here). 

We love how open and vulnerable our readers and listeners are, and are honoured to be your go-to source for sex-education! Real sex education.

How Do I Tell My Partner I...

When we talk about the concept of a non-monogamous relationship, a lot of people often associate it with cheating or swinging, when in reality they’re just a range of different relationship structures that simply aren’t monogamous. 

Consensual or ethical non-monogamy ranges from...

Our superwoman conditioning leaves us in a constant cycle of burnout. From over-functioning and never taking time for ourselves, to being forced to slow down and rest because of extreme exhaustion, then jumping back into the over-functioning. Our conditioning we’ve been exposed to since we...

There’s no such thing as a dumb question. At The Pleasure Collective, we encourage our clients to be open and vulnerable and to ask whatever is on their mind with no fear of judgement. 

From how to know if you've orgasmed, to wondering how much sex is enough for a healthy relationship....

Do you avoid initiating sex with your partner? A lot of women are reluctant to initiate sex, so you’re not alone. For many women, they want to be desired, they want their partner to want them so more often than not it’s considered the man’s role to initiate any intimacy. 

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Sex is more complicated than just being turned on and having it. It’s actually a much more complex process that is inherently tied to our body’s biology and experiences. Women desire safety and security, necessary components of a healthy relationship that lead to better sex.

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If you’ve ever felt as though the sex you’re experiencing isn’t meeting the expectations you’ve set based on what you see in the movies, you’re not alone. We hate to break it to you, but the thing about Hollywood productions and TV shows depiction of sex is that...

The superwomen are the over functioners, the caregivers, the over-givers. They typically have a lot of success in their careers, have degrees, get promotions, meet their targets. However, with this success comes a lot of exhaustion, burn out and feelings of resentment.

Superwomen often find it...