Insights and advice
that every over-functioning Superwoman needs to read on their journey to great sex, more intimacy and more connected relationships.
Innies and Outies...No, We're Not Talking About Belly Buttons
It has come to my attention that there is a trend going around online (mostly with young adults and teens) about “innies” and “outies”.Â
No, we’re not talking belly buttons.Â
We’re talking vulvas.Â
Men are sharing their “preferences” and women are sharing their elation that “thank god they have a...
The Testosterone Myth
Myth: low testosterone is the reason for low libido in women and the cure.
Fact: Low testosterone MAY be a contributing factor to low libido and sexual dysfunction for some women (get proper testing done from your doctor), but it is not the only or most likely contributing factor.Â
Yes, it is true...
Pregnancy & Pleasure
Pregnancy and Pleasure: Not Taboo Anymore
Pleasure is always a taboo topic for women. We can’t be too forward, too brash, too crass about what we like and how we like it. But Pleasure and Pregnancy? UNHEARD OF!
Until now…
Let’s get into it – the down and dirty – of being pregnant and experiencing...
The Things I Wish Someone Told me About Pregnancy: 1st Trimester
An honest discussion of the truths we should tell each other about pregnancy (that I wish I knew).
For those closest to me, you know being a mother was never top on my priority list.
It was one of those vague, “maybe one day”, goals. I’d be happy if it happened, but I’d be happy if it didn’t too.
...How to Break out of Routine and Save your Relationship with Ritual
I had a call last week with one of my private clients. Her name is Kate and she is a 43 year old female on maternity leave with her 3rd child.Â
She confessed, “sex has been on the back burner in my relationship for years”.
She said her husband is very understanding but it is definitely having an i...
FAQ: Vagina Edition
Ask Jordin:
Does my vagina look weird?
No.
Every vagina is different – in size, shape and colour. Every vagina is normal. Your vagina is normal and beautiful and does not need to live up to some unrealistic vaginal beauty standard of surgical-level symmetry and uniformity.Â
Celebrate our differ...
Treat Your Vagina Right Â
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Our topic today is vaginal health.
Last week we talked about the common infections those of us with a vulva/vagina are susceptible to. This week we are talking about the best ways to care and show your love for your vagina and all the miracles it provides.
- Gut Health
Yes, you heard me ri...
Common Vaginal Infections and the Ways you Definitely Shouldn’t Treat Them!
Our vaginas get sick.
They just do, like any other infection in any other part of our bodies, and it’s time we stop shaming ourselves (and others) for having a vagina that’s in need of a little extra attention.
Vaginal infections can be caused by sexually transmitted infections (STIs), bacteria, p...
Sexting 101: The 5Ws of Sexting
Sexting is a great way to build desire and cultivate intimacy with your partner.
And these are my rules for sexting...Â
Sexting is appropriate when it is:
- Consensual
Sexting is NOT appropriate when:
- It is not consensual.
That’s it. Those are the rules.
Oh, and don’t share sexts you’v...
Female Sexual Anxiety
Performance anxiety is not just for professional athletes and men with erectile dysfunction, women suffer with sexual performance anxiety too.
When men suffer from sexual performance anxiety it often presents itself with:
- Worrying about sex being too short
- Worrying about not being able to pleas ...
Hi! I'm Jordin, owner and creator of The Pleasure Collective
I believe that high-achieving women deserve deep intimacy, fulfilling relationships, and pleasure in every area of their lives—without sacrificing their success. My work helps women experience more energy, more connection, and feel fully seen, supported, and loved. I’m here to guide you in breaking free from burnout, prioritizing pleasure, and creating lasting fulfillment—emotionally, physically, and relationally.
