Insights and advice

Myth: low testosterone is the reason for low libido in women and the cure.

Fact: Low testosterone MAY be a contributing factor to low libido and sexual dysfunction for some women (get proper testing done from your doctor), but it is not the only or most likely contributing factor. 

Yes, it is true...

Pregnancy and Pleasure: Not Taboo Anymore

Pleasure is always a taboo topic for women. We can’t be too forward, too brash, too crass about what we like and how we like it. But Pleasure and Pregnancy? UNHEARD OF!

Until now…

Let’s get into it – the down and dirty – of being pregnant and experiencing...

An honest discussion of the truths we should tell each other about pregnancy (that I wish I knew).

For those closest to me, you know being a mother was never top on my priority list.

It was one of those vague, “maybe one day”, goals. I’d be happy if it happened, but I’d be happy if it didn’t too.

I had a call last week with one of my private clients. Her name is Kate and she is a 43 year old female on maternity leave with her 3^rd child. 

She confessed, “sex has been on the back burner in my relationship for years”.

She said her husband is very understanding but it is definitely having an i...

Ask Jordin:

Does my vagina look weird?

No.

Every vagina is different – in size, shape and colour. Every vagina is normal. Your vagina is normal and beautiful and does not need to live up to some unrealistic vaginal beauty standard of surgical-level symmetry and uniformity. 

Celebrate our differ...

Our topic today is vaginal health.

Last week we talked about the common infections those of us with a vulva/vagina are susceptible to. This week we are talking about the best ways to care and show your love for your vagina and all the miracles it provides.

1. Gut Health

Yes, you heard me ri...

Our vaginas get sick.

They just do, like any other infection in any other part of our bodies, and it’s time we stop shaming ourselves (and others) for having a vagina that’s in need of a little extra attention.

Vaginal infections can be caused by sexually transmitted infections (STIs), bacteria, p...

Sexting is a great way to build desire and cultivate intimacy with your partner.

And these are my rules for sexting... 

Sexting is appropriate when it is:

1. Consensual

Sexting is NOT appropriate when:

1. It is not consensual.

That’s it. Those are the rules.

Oh, and don’t share sexts you’v...

Performance anxiety is not just for professional athletes and men with erectile dysfunction, women suffer with sexual performance anxiety too.

When men suffer from sexual performance anxiety it often presents itself with:

• Worrying about sex being too short
• Worrying about not being able to pleas
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Self-pleasure is what I like to call masturbation. 

Masturbation gets such a bad rep. It’s dirty, it’s gross, it’s cheating, it’s shameful.

But not self-pleasure. Self-pleasure is fun, it’s explorative, it’s normal and safe and healthy.

Self-pleasure is self-care.

Let’s get a few facts and fig...