Insights and advice

 Speaking to a partner about orgasms and pleasure can be intimidating - you don’t want anyone taking it personally or getting offended, especially if it’s not something you’ve spoken about with your partner before. We know asking for what you want can be intimidating for many women but with the righ...

Sex is not a drive. Sex is a reward system – the better the sex is, the more you want it. The problem is that most women don’t want the sex they’re having. 

On this episode of the Pleasure Principles, I have GG and Kasey back on the show for some ‘girl talk’ about the recipe for good sex.

Listen t...

On the latest episode of The Pleasure Principles Podcast, I talked about why we find it so difficult to communicate and to ask for something. We’ve been conditioned not to ask. 

We either:

• Try to do it all ourselves
• Try not to want anything at all, or
• Don’t feel like we deserve anything.

Bu...

Are you the rock in your family or relationship? The one that does everything for everyone with very little time for yourself? 

On this episode of The Pleasure Principles Podcast, we’ve got GG and Kasey back on the show for some girl talk about why most women find it difficult to let someone else b...

My mission is to re-educate women and give them the answers they need to get that spark back in their life, career, or bedroom. So, even though this might be contentious, I talked about porn on the latest episode of The Pleasure Principles Podcast. 

Because I support women and advocate for pleasure...

On my most recent episode of The Pleasure Principles Podcast (listen on Apple, listen on Spotify), I talk about ‘good girl’ conditioning. 

Good girl conditioning starts when we’re young, when we’re little girls and don’t have a filter. Not knowing how to speak up for ourselves.

When you’re told to...

One in two women suffer from sexual dysfunction in their lifetime. They lack desire, they struggle to get turned on. 

Maybe they have pain with sex and difficulty achieving orgasm. This is a topic that mostly gets swept under the rug. 

Women go to their doctors in a cloak of shame and secrecy. And...

It’s a question that I get often. It goes something like this:

Help! I read your post about having obligatory sex with my husband. I never want to have sex. I don't care if I have sex ever again. 
However, I stretch to having sex to every other day for my husband. If he doesn't have sex daily, I fee...

Talking about vaginas and vulvas is another taboo topic. If I polled everyone right now, how many of you have ever actually looked at your vulva? Do you know what the difference is between a vulva and a vagina? 

Most of us have been calling our anatomy the wrong name most of our lives because we’ve...

Before I start answering this topic, I want to say thank you for the messages I've been receiving and the reviews you’ve been leaving on ✨The Pleasure Principles Podcast✨. It's heart-warming to know that you are enjoying the content, and it's helping you find more connection, more pleasure in your l...