Insights and advice
that every over-functioning Superwoman needs to read on their journey to great sex, more intimacy and more connected relationships.
#199 When Responsibility Turns into Resentment and Desire Disappears
Responsibility Isn’t Sexy
You were praised for being the responsible one. You were the girl who got straight A’s, who remembered birthdays, who picked up what others dropped. That praise felt like love, but it was never love for you. It was love for what you did. Responsibility became your safety a...
#198 You’re Not Codependent You’re Surviving Coercive Control
The truth about what’s really draining high-achieving women
 Most women try to fix their relationships or fix themselves. My work isn’t about fixing or forcing intimacy. It’s about rewiring what made you believe depletion was love in the first place. High-achieving women with super traits have been...
#197 Why Marriage Benefits Men More Than Women (And Leaves You Exhausted)
Male Centered Love and Relationships
Something so simple but yet so hard for my high-achieving clients to accept is that we were taught male-centered love, male-centered relating, male-centered sex. I wrote an entire book about this for the sex part with the Pink Canary. Heterosexual partnerships, ...
#196 Why Loyalty Without Reciprocity Isn’t Love
I have been hearing from so many women lately who are at a breaking point. Some are separating. Some are trying to rebuild after infidelity. Others are still in marriages but exhausted by cycles that never change. Many are trying to date again in this climate with super traits. No matter where they ...
#195 5 Habits of the Most Well-Loved and Well Fucked Women
The same traits that make you successful in your career are often the ones that leave you exhausted in love. Loyalty, empathy, hard work, and forgiveness are praised and rewarded in the workplace. But in intimacy, they create resentment, sexless relationships, and health issues that show up after ye...
#194 Why Super Traits Keep High-Achieving Women Lonely and Stuck in Relationships
High-achieving women are praised for their empathy, loyalty, and hard work, but these same super traits often become survival strategies that leave them exhausted, lonely, and stuck in relationships. The very qualities that help women succeed in their careers, families, and communities are the ones ...
#193 How Tone Policing Leads to Loss of Intimacy and Low Libido
If He Cannot Handle Your Tone, He Cannot Handle Your Desire
The Hidden Impact of Tone Policing.
There are a few things that are always true after working with thousands of women with super traits. One of them is simple and powerful. If he cannot handle your tone, he is never going to be able to h...
#192 Why Smart Women Get Stuck in Extractive Relationships Instead of Pleasure-Centered Ones
The Truth High-Achieving Women Are Living In
Most high-achieving women don’t even realize they are living in an extractive relationship. You give and give in your relationship, in your career, and at home, and wonder why you feel exhausted, unseen, untouched, and unfulfilled.
You blame your hormon...
#191 Why You Only Want Sex on Vacation. How to Get Desire Back at Home
The Illusion of Vacation Desire
Summer is almost over, and I hear the same loop from my clients again and again. On vacation, they laugh more easily, they say yes to sex, and they feel lighter and more present in their bodies. For a moment, they recognize themselves again.
Then they return home, a...
#190 Why Strong Women Overlook Betrayal and Red Flags in Relationships
I was asked recently why successful, hardworking, intuitive women stay in emotionally harmful relationships.
This was me. This is many of my clients.
And the truth is, we have super traits. These qualities make us capable, loyal, and endlessly resourceful. They are the reason we excel at work and ...
Hi! I'm Jordin, owner and creator of The Pleasure Collective
I believe that high-achieving women deserve deep intimacy, fulfilling relationships, and pleasure in every area of their lives—without sacrificing their success. My work helps women experience more energy, more connection, and feel fully seen, supported, and loved. I’m here to guide you in breaking free from burnout, prioritizing pleasure, and creating lasting fulfillment—emotionally, physically, and relationally.
