Insights and advice
that every over-functioning Superwoman needs to read on their journey to great sex, more intimacy and more connected relationships.
#330 Why High-Achieving Women Feel Lonely in Their Relationships
Something Is Missing (And It's Not What You Think)
You have the house, the career, the family, and the vacations. You're doing everything right. And yet something is off. You're not as happy as you think you should be, and you can't quite put your finger on why.
This is one of
...#229 What to do When Success Feels Like Survival (This Can't Be Normal)
You hired. You delegated. You built the systems, took the solo retreats, did everything right. And five days after coming home, you were already asking when you would get to escape again.
That is not a productivity problem. That is what leadership consultant and author Chanie Wilschanski calls the ...
#228 Low Libido, Emotional Labor, and Why Youā€™re Quiet Quitting Your Marriage
You Are Overcompensating for a Problem You Didn't Create
Lean in for this one. If you've been quietly killing yourself trying to fix something that was never really yours to fix, you need to hear this. Three clients in two weeks came to their coaching calls with a problem they were trying to solve....
#227 Why People Are Choosing AI Over Human Relationships
Nobody Taught Us This. That Was the Point.
We were taught how to avoid pregnancy. How to avoid STDs. Here is a condom. Here is a pamphlet. Good luck.
Nobody taught us about pleasure. Nobody taught us that consent is ongoing, not a one-time door you walk through and cannot close behind you. Nobody ...
#226 Why You Have No Sex Drive (It's Not What Your Doctor Told You)
You have been told it is low libido. Maybe HSDD. Maybe perimenopause or a hormone problem. And you have tried the things they recommend: therapy, HRT, scheduling it, a glass of wine, a vacation, and lingerie you never ended up wearing. And when none of it worked, you were left with one conclusion: t...
#225 What a Sex Therapist Wants You to Know About Your Desire
Why the Model Wasn't Working
Most of us are just surviving. Getting through the day. And we know that is not a condition for great sex, intimacy, and pleasure.
Kayla Moore spent eight years as a licensed marriage and family therapist and certified sex therapist before making a shift that will soun...
#224 Why Weaponized Incompetence is Decreasing Your Libido
The Biggest Hidden Brake on Female Desire That No One Is Naming Correctly
You have asked him to do it 17 times. It is still not done. The car lease is coming up, and you are reminding him as the date approaches. He watches you do it well while he relaxes. And slowly, you have stopped asking because...
#223 The REAL Reason for Low Libido in Relationships (Part 2)
The same traits that make you exceptional at your career, at tracking others' moods, at knowing when the patient is gonna flatline, how to close the deal, how to see problems differently, make you exquisitely sensitive to context in sex and relationships. You do not have low desire. You are not inhe...
#222 Is Your Mismatched Libido Really Why You Have a Sexless Marriage (PART 1)
Something very interesting is happening right now. The women I work with are splitting into two groups. One group is more connected than ever, having better sex than ever. The other group is burning it all down, choosing separation, choosing themselves. And both are coming from the same place.
For ...
#221 Mismatched Libidos, Vibrators, and Getting Out of Your Head During Sex
I wanted to give back with a little Q&A and answer some of your most pressing questions. We are covering mismatched libidos, different levels of desire in relationships, the full download on vibrators and why you need them in your life, expanding the definition of sex beyond penis and vagina, the be...
Hi! I'm Jordin, owner and creator of The Pleasure Collective
I believe that high-achieving women deserve deep intimacy, fulfilling relationships, and pleasure in every area of their livesā€”without sacrificing their success. My work helps women experience more energy, more connection, and feel fully seen, supported, and loved. Iā€™m here to guide you in breaking free from burnout, prioritizing pleasure, and creating lasting fulfillmentā€”emotionally, physically, and relationally.
