Insights and advice
that every over-functioning Superwoman needs to read on their journey to great sex, more intimacy and more connected relationships.
#184 Multiple Orgasms Aren’t About Skill, They’re About Safety
There is no faster way to make a CEO or a surgeon squirm than handing them a crystal dildo at one of my retreats. And it’s always the same look. The new clients stare at it and ask, 'What do I do with this? What are the steps? Where’s the training video?
Because when we’re high-achieving, people-pl...
#183 Why Successful Women End Up in Sexless Marriages & What to Do About It
It’s Not Your Libido. It is Burnout.
The high-achieving women that I work with usually fall into two groups. Either they have low desire and have checked out because intimacy feels like a task, a performance, or a source of resentment. Or they have high desire and feel confused because sex is the o...
#182 The Hidden Link Between Stress, Painful Sex & Your Pelvic Floor From A Pelvic Floor Specialist
“Sorry, I didn’t shave.”  “Sorry, I brought my baby.”  “Sorry, I’m crying.”
Women apologize before pelvic exams, as if it’s expected. And what they’re really saying is this. I’m sorry for how I look. I’m sorry for taking up space. I’m sorry for needing care.
But no one ever taught them what is a...
#181 Why Couples & Sex Therapy Doesn’t Work for High-Achieving Women
Why Communication Doesn’t Fix Sexless Marriages
Why you don't need to communicate better and other weaponized advice from couples therapy and Instagram influencers. I was a part of this problem. These are the things keeping you stuck in your sexless marriage.
If your relationship feels like a neve...
#180 5 Questions Couples Having Great Sex Are Asking Each Other
There is no shortage of sexy conversation prompts. All of these men's coaches and writers writing those spicy things that you're like, yes, press save on social. I even have a free guide to dirty talk. But there is a massive disconnect from you reading my dirty talk guide, hearing me talk about it o...
#179 Why You’re Not Initiating Anymore (And It’s Not Low Libido, Hormones or Feminine Energy)
I get a DM from a man at least once a week. How do I get my wife to initiate sex? How do I get my wife to want sex again? And every time I think to myself, are you really ready to hear the answer?
Because what turns women on, especially in long-term relationships, is not lingerie. It is not a sex t...
#178 Scheduling Sex Isn't The Holy Grail Solution to a Sexless Relationship
I used to be the doctor on national television telling couples to schedule sex. I even wrote about it in my book The Pink Canary. And I’ve learned so much since then.
Not because scheduling sex was inherently wrong. But it became one more way for high-functioning women like us to be set up to fail....
#177 The Real Reason You Don’t Want Sex in Your “Good” Relationship
I hear this all the time. My husband is great. He’s patient. He supports my career. He’s a great dad. But you don’t want to have sex with him. Or maybe he doesn’t want to have sex with you.
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There’s emotional distance. You feel lone...
#176 Why High-Achieving Women Stop Wanting Sex (And How to Get Your Desire Back)
You did everything right.
The degrees, the white coat, the thriving practice, the perfect custom home—you were doing everything you were supposed to. So why did it feel like you were dying inside?
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I used to think something was wro...
#175 Why Sex Therapy Doesn’t Work for High-Functioning Women and What Actually Does
You’ve Done the Therapy. Why Are You Still the Problem?
You’ve done the therapy. You’ve read the books. You’ve tried to fix it.
But if you’ve ever sat on a therapist’s couch and walked away wondering why you still feel like the problem, this is for you.
Therapy isn’t broken. It just wasn’t built ...
Hi! I'm Jordin, owner and creator of The Pleasure Collective
I believe that high-achieving women deserve deep intimacy, fulfilling relationships, and pleasure in every area of their lives—without sacrificing their success. My work helps women experience more energy, more connection, and feel fully seen, supported, and loved. I’m here to guide you in breaking free from burnout, prioritizing pleasure, and creating lasting fulfillment—emotionally, physically, and relationally.
