Insights and advice

We like to blame a lot of different things for the lack of sex and intimacy in our relationships, I hear these excuses all the time. The problem is that blaming these things is ruining your relationships and your overall well being.

Hormones and/or stress are common things people blame for the...

“Not tonight.”

No one wants to hear that. And many of us don't want to say that.

Contrary to societal beliefs, mismatched libidos are normal and to be expected in long-term relationships. Oftentimes we are trying to get back to that New Relationship Energy feeling, and we have no idea ...

 Do you like giving blowjobs? Have you ever wondered who first looked at a dick and thought.. I want to put that in my mouth? 

I gave my first unofficial blowjob tutorial to a group of ladies during our pre-med degree after a Cellular Physiology class. Which is probably when I should...

 Physical touch and connection come naturally in the early stages of a relationship. It's something we don't need to work hard at; it just happens.

During this time, our bodies release a hormone and neurochemical cocktail that intensifies our thoughts about that person and leaves us wanting...

 As a recovering superwoman who now works with fellow superwomen every single day, I know a thing or two about feeling exhausted, crusty, and lacking desire.

Women like you are balancing A LOT. You’re doing everything for everyone, thinking ahead, planning, delegating, and being the...

Women are fantastic tolerators. Life taught us this. Our childhoods taught us this. Just generally growing up identifying as female taught us this. 

And whether we do it because we want to help, because giving to others makes us feel good, or whatever we think the reason is… the...

In a world where divorce rates are high and satisfaction in relationships is low, it's crucial to cultivate intimacy and sex in long-term relationships.

This can be difficult, especially for women who often struggle to communicate their needs and desires. As women we are conditioned to anticipate...

 I’ve worked with thousands of high-achieving, over-giving, people pleasing women and I hear a lot of the same things.

“I’m feeling alone in my relationship.”

“I’m not fulfilled, it’s like something is missing.”

“I’m anxious,...

When people learn that I’m a pleasure and intimacy coach, they often think I’m just teaching things like how to have sex with passion, what to do when you have a higher sex drive than your husband, how to fix your sexless relationship or how to spice up the sexual chemistry with your...

You’ve heard it all before. The traditional sex, intimacy and relationship advice – dating advice about attachment styles, a new communication formula for you to follow, a new erogenous zone to explore, etc.

The problem for Superwomen like yourself is that the traditional advice...