Insights and advice

that every over-functioning Superwoman needs to read on their journey to great sex, more intimacy and more connected relationships.

Self-Pleasure: The Benefits of Masturbation For High-Achieving Women

There is this false belief that once you are partnered, your pleasure and orgasms are your partner's responsibility. I’ve also had people tell me they and/or their partner consider it cheating or that if you’re self-pleasuring it means something is wrong or missing with your relationship.

In my opini...

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The Connection Between Trauma Responses And Your Sex Life

We like to blame a lot of different things for the lack of sex and intimacy in our relationships, I hear these excuses all the time. The problem is that blaming these things is ruining your relationships and your overall well being.

Hormones and/or stress are common things people blame for the lack o...

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When A Woman Has Higher Sex Drive Than Husband: How To Manage Mismatched Libidos

“Not tonight.”

No one wants to hear that. And many of us don't want to say that.

Contrary to societal beliefs, mismatched libidos are normal and to be expected in long-term relationships. Oftentimes we are trying to get back to that New Relationship Energy feeling, and we have no idea how to cultivate...

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How To Give A Good Blowjob (And Actually Enjoy It)

 Do you like giving blowjobs? Have you ever wondered who first looked at a dick and thought.. I want to put that in my mouth? 

I gave my first unofficial blowjob tutorial to a group of ladies during our pre-med degree after a Cellular Physiology class. Which is probably when I should have known I was...

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How To Increase Intimacy In Your Long-Term Relationship

 Physical touch and connection come naturally in the early stages of a relationship. It's something we don't need to work hard at; it just happens.

During this time, our bodies release a hormone and neurochemical cocktail that intensifies our thoughts about that person and leaves us wanting more - do...

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Why Superwomen Are So Exhausted And Often Don’t Feel Desire or Desired

 As a recovering superwoman who now works with fellow superwomen every single day, I know a thing or two about feeling exhausted, crusty, and lacking desire.

Women like you are balancing A LOT. You’re doing everything for everyone, thinking ahead, planning, delegating, and being the glue that holds e...

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Why Women Are Great Tolerators (And Tips On How To Stop)


Women are fantastic tolerators. Life taught us this. Our childhoods taught us this. Just generally growing up identifying as female taught us this. 

And whether we do it because we want to help, because giving to others makes us feel good, or whatever we think the reason is… the reality is that as hi...

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How to Seduce a High-Achieving Woman

In a world where divorce rates are high and satisfaction in relationships is low, it's crucial to cultivate intimacy and sex in long-term relationships.

This can be difficult, especially for women who often struggle to communicate their needs and desires. As women we are conditioned to anticipate oth...

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The Surprising Secret to Really Good Sex

 I’ve worked with thousands of high-achieving, over-giving, people pleasing women and I hear a lot of the same things.

“I’m feeling alone in my relationship.”

“I’m not fulfilled, it’s like something is missing.”

“I’m anxious, depressed, and resentful.”

“I’m just not really enjoying sex.”

These stat...

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6 Ways to Train Your Mind And Body To Feel More Pleasure

When people learn that I’m a pleasure and intimacy coach, they often think I’m just teaching things like how to have sex with passion, what to do when you have a higher sex drive than your husband, how to fix your sexless relationship or how to spice up the sexual chemistry with your partner.

But int...

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