Insights and advice

Our vaginas get sick.

They just do, like any other infection in any other part of our bodies, and it’s time we stop shaming ourselves (and others) for having a vagina that’s in need of a little extra attention.

Vaginal infections can be caused by sexually transmitted infections...

Sexting is a great way to build desire and cultivate intimacy with your partner.

And these are my rules for sexting... 

Sexting is appropriate when it is:

1. Consensual

Sexting is NOT appropriate when:

1. It is not consensual.

That’s it. Those are the rules.

Oh, and don’t share...

Performance anxiety is not just for professional athletes and men with erectile dysfunction, women suffer with sexual performance anxiety too.

When men suffer from sexual performance anxiety it often presents itself with:

• Worrying about sex being too short
• Worrying about not being able to please...

Self-pleasure is what I like to call masturbation. 

Masturbation gets such a bad rep. It’s dirty, it’s gross, it’s cheating, it’s shameful.

But not self-pleasure. Self-pleasure is fun, it’s explorative, it’s normal and safe and healthy.

Self-pleasure is ...

There is no magic number for the number of times you and your partner should be having sex.

The ideal level is the amount that both you are your partner are satisfied with. Which can be difficult to estimate because every single person is different.

Treating your sexless marriage starts by...

We have been told that low libido is a women’s problem.

We assume that women have more issues with libido than men, we assume that women are to blame for their low libido, and we make light of it and brush it off as “normal” or expected.

But it isn’t.

Sex isn’t just...

Whether you are on eHarmony, Plenty of Fish, Tinder, or any of the online dating sites and apps that are available, they all have one thing in common…online dating can be hard.

You may have heard the legend of the young couple that met online and within a year of their first date they were...

I'd like to introduce you to someone...

The clitoris. Your clitoris.

An elusive anatomical mystery that has been lost, rediscovered, censored and erased from history, textbooks, and medical journals alike.

We are lucky because know we have the research and information about the clitoris that can...

Women are led to believe that low libido and having no sex drive is just a part of being a woman.

Men have higher sex drives.

Women stop wanting sex after they have children.

Women’s vagina’s close up and die after menopause.

Right?

WRONG.

There are plenty of reasons you or your...

Women’s libido is a difficult topic to tackle. Often, people feel uncomfortable talking to their friends and partners because we have been taught to keep it to ourselves. We see women in movies and pornography in ecstasy and internalize that there is something wrong with us if we do not...