#168 - Why High-Achieving Women Dissociate During Sex (And How to Reconnect to Pleasure)
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Do you ever find yourself mentally checking out during intimacy—thinking about your to-do list or even feeling “the ick” when your partner touches you? You’re not alone.
High-achieving women often struggle with dissociation during sex, and in this episode, Dr. Jordin Wiggins is breaking down exactly why it happens and how you can start healing.
Dissociation is not a personal failure—it’s your nervous system’s way of protecting you when pleasure doesn’t feel safe. Whether it's because you’ve been conditioned to prioritize productivity over receiving, or because of past trauma (recognized or unrecognized), dissociation keeps you stuck in your head instead of present in your body.
In less than 30-minutes, here’s what you’ll learn:
- Why high-achieving women are more likely to dissociate during intimacy
- How past trauma—both big and small—can shape your relationship with pleasure
- The 4 steps to start reconnecting to your body and feeling safe with intimacy again
The truth is, if you’ve been “going somewhere else” during sex, you can also find your way back. This is your invitation to start healing, reclaim your feminine power, and experience intimacy and pleasure in a way that truly nourishes you.
If this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend who needs to hear it. The more we talk about this, the more we heal.
If you’re ready for REAL results, I challenge you to join my Group Coaching experience, a 3-month private coaching and mastermind container designed to help high-achieving women reclaim their feminine power, master pleasure, and finally feel deeply fulfilled in their relationships and personal lives. We kick-off March 26.
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Hi! I'm Jordin, owner and creator of The Pleasure Collective
I believe that high-achieving women deserve deep intimacy, fulfilling relationships, and pleasure in every area of their livesā€”without sacrificing their success. My work helps women experience more energy, more connection, and feel fully seen, supported, and loved. Iā€™m here to guide you in breaking free from burnout, prioritizing pleasure, and creating lasting fulfillmentā€”emotionally, physically, and relationally.
