The Super Trait Mapping Session™

Decode your survival patterns. Map your Pleasure Path. Reclaim your receiving.

A 50-minute private session with Dr. Jordin to decode your survival patterns, map your Pleasure Path™ stage, and outline your next step to receive, soften, and reconnect to turn-on.

This is for you if:

You are successful, capable, and emotionally intelligent. And you’re tired of being the one who holds everything together while intimacy quietly erodes.

You may recognize yourself here:

• You are the one who repairs, regulates, explains, and plans
• You’ve tried therapy, communication work, hormones, and self-development — and effort keeps backfiring
• You feel flat, resentful, or disconnected and know this isn’t who you are

You may also notice:

• A mismatch in desire -  wanting sex less, differently, or only when you’re not carrying everything
• Missing the spark - wanting sex because you feel turned on and alive, not out of obligation
• Feeling numb, lonely, or emotionally muted - and quietly worrying something is wrong with you

This is not a libido problem.
This is not a communication problem.
This is not a motivation problem.

It is a patterned system — and it’s specific to you.

What the Super Trait Audit Is

The Super Trait Audit is a private, structured session with Dr. Jordin Wiggins ND designed to identify how your Super Traits are shaping:

• intimacy
• desire and libido
• emotional labor
• relationship satisfaction 
• nervous system safety

This is not coaching.
This is not therapy.
This is clarity and precision.

 In Your Super Trait Audit, We Will:

1. A Clear Diagnosis of Your Pattern

You’ll identify your dominant Super Traits and see exactly how they are shaping intimacy, desire, and emotional labor in your relationships.

This is where most women realize:
“Oh — this is why effort keeps backfiring.”

2. Separation of What Is Yours (and What Is Not)

You’ll gain clarity on:

• what is yours to work on — so you stop taking responsibility for what cannot be fixed through effort

• name where you are over functioning, self-abandoning, managing instead of being met 

• name the patterns that set you up for disconnection and erotic shut down 

This alone removes enormous self-blame and confusion.

3. A Grounded Next Step 

You’ll leave with a clear direction for what actually needs to shift — whether that means recalibration, renegotiation of power dynamics, or simply stopping the over-functioning that’s draining your desire and aliveness.

This is about stopping the right things, not adding more work.

Why This Works When Everything Else Hasn’t

High-functioning women don’t struggle because they lack insight.
They struggle because their strengths have become survival strategies.

Many women come to this work believing they’re depressed or doomed. Because joy, desire, and motivation feel distant.

When a woman is over-responsible, emotionally vigilant, or carrying the relational load, her system prioritizes survival over pleasure. And all her relationships will end with a similar pattern.

Desire doesn’t disappear because attraction is gone.
It goes offline when the nervous system is managing instead of receiving.

Super Traits do not unwind through more effort.
They unwind through accurate assessment.

The Audit ends that loop.

This Is For You If:

• You feel lonely inside your relationship or dating life
• You can’t access joy, desire, or aliveness the way you used to
• You’re afraid this numbness or libido mismatch is permanent
• You want clarity before making another compromise
• You value precision over platitudes

This Is Not For You If:

• You want quick fixes
• You want reassurance without responsibility
• You are not willing to look at patterns honestly

What Happens After You Book

1. You receive confirmation and scheduling details

2. You complete a brief intake so we use our time well

3. We meet privately for your Super Trait Audit

4. You receive clear language, insight, and direction

There is no pressure to continue into any program.
This session stands fully on its own.

You do not need to choose between pleasure and partnership.
And you are not broken because joy or desire feels distant right now.

When aliveness disappears, it’s often because your system has been working too hard for too long.

If effort hasn’t worked, clarity is the next move.

For the woman who is done overfunctioning in relationships and ready to finally to be met in intimacy.