Super Trait Academy™
Where high-functioning women learn the foundations of The Pleasure-Centered Method™
Understand your Super Traits. Learn a framework for real intimacy. Rebuild through clarity, community, and consistent action.
“I can manage anything at work, but my relationships feels impossible.”
You’ve done everything right, and you’re still not okay.
You built the career, managed the home, and held the family together. Yet you wake up tired, tense, and disconnected from the life you created.
Therapy gave you insight, not relief. Communication tools might have stopped the big arguments, but the imbalance always returns.
“I keep holding everything together, but no one notices I’m falling apart.”
Because the same traits that made you successful, empathy, loyalty, responsibility, and hard work, have been overused until they became survival skills.
They hold your relationships together while slowly erasing you.
They hold everything together but cost you the very connection you crave. You become the glue and the ghost at the same time—present for everyone, missing from yourself.
Without a new framework, nothing changes.
You will keep looping through the same cycle:
Give more. Get crumbs. Communicate harder. Feel more confused and alone.
This costs more than desire; it drains your health, confidence, joy, and self-trust.
It keeps brilliant women surviving connection instead of receiving it.
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You don’t need fixing. You need a method that works for women like you.
I am Dr. Jordin Wiggins, naturopathic doctor, author, coercive control certified clinician and creator of The Pleasure-Centered Method™.
After helping thousands of women reclaim health and desire, I discovered what no one else was naming.
It is not your hormones or your mindset. It is not codependency. Or his attachment style or love language.
It is the invisible emotional labor and power imbalance that keep you destabilized from the exhaustion of constant over giving - always fixing, never fulfilled.
You were trained to be a high achiever, not a high receiver.
Super Trait Academy™ gives you structure, language, and community to finally understand the patterns that keep you over-functioning—and teaches you how to feel safe, supported, and connected again.
“We are not here to perform healing. We are here to practice it.”
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Clarity. Community. Consistent practice.
Inside the Academy, you will learn how to:
1. Understand Your Super Traits
Identify which traits drive your over-giving and learn to balance them.
Empathy without self-abandonment. Loyalty with boundaries that are invitations for deeper intimacy.
2. Learn a Relationship Framework That Works
Apply the five pillars of a pleasure-centered relationship:
- Mutual Support and Goals
- Respect for Feelings and Needs
- Shared Power in Decisions (?)
- Erotic Reciprocity
- Safety and Accountability
3. Regulate Your Nervous System
Short, evidence-based practices that bring your body from tension to calm so you can lead from clarity instead of reactivity.
This is where you start building your internal dominance & clarity - calm command, emotional authority, and self-possession.
You will learn the diff
4. Integrate in Community
Monthly live calls, teaching modules, and a private app keep you accountable and supported.
“For the first time, I’m not performing connection—I’m living it.”
⭐️ Monthly Live Q&A
Direct coaching with Dr. J to apply The Pleasure-Centered Method™
⭐️ Eight Core Modules / Year
Clear, practical lessons on Super Traits, nervous-system regulation, and Pleasure Centred Method framework
⭐️ Private Community App
Connection, prompts, and accountability
⭐️ Member Perks
40% off live intensives ($500 vs $850)
⭐️ Optional 1:1 Super Trait Audit
Personalized review of your patterns and next steps
From managing everything to finally feeling met.
Women in the Academy describe the same shift:
“For the first time, I understand why I kept repeating the same fights.”
“My body feels calm, not clenched.”
“I’m finally being met where I am.”
Imagine feeling at home in your body, clear in your standards, surrounded by women who see you.
Imagine love, leadership, and pleasure built on safety, not sacrifice.
If nothing changes…
You will keep managing everyone’s comfort while your own needs fade.
Another year of holding it all together will cost more than intimacy.
It will cost your health, your confidence, and your joy.
Awareness without action is another loop.
The Academy helps you take action so you do not keep repeating the same story in a new body.
You don’t have to carry it all anymore. You just need a map.
Super Trait Academy is that map.
Clear steps. Expert guidance. A community built for women who lead.
Rebuild your relationships and your nervous system with structure, not strain.
Pleasure is not indulgence. It is evidence that you are safe enough to live again.
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