How Long Can You Keep Up the Illusion of a Perfect Life?
DROWNING IN SUCCESS
It’s late. You’re curled up on the couch with a glass of wine in one hand, and your phone in the other.
You’re surrounded by the remnants of a dinner you barely enjoyed. And the TV is playing in the background. But you’re not really watching.
“I don’t know how much longer I can do this….” you think to yourself.
And yet, no one sees how much you’re suffering.
“You look great!” they say. Because your nails are done, you dress well, and you just got a fresh hit of botox.
You’re living that rich girl life…and on paper, you have everything. People envy your success!
But somehow, the glossy exterior doesn’t match the emptiness on the inside.
If people knew what was really going on behind the scenes, they’d be shocked. Because it feels like you’re drowning…
You look like you have it all together on the outside… the career, the house, the car. You take the trips. But your outsides do not match your insides. You feel like a fraud.
The woman you once were…vibrant, full of life…feels like a distant memory.
And you feel alone. So it is easier to numb.
You crave genuine connection. And you just want to be happy.
But your mood-swings are harder to control… little things are setting you off. You find yourself snapping at everyone around you (even when they’re “just trying to help”).
You’ve lost your turn-on. You desire to be desired. And at best, you’re having check-box sex that feels forced, and rushed.
There’s an emptiness underneath it all…and it’s hard to find words to explain.
But with 25 plates in the air all at once, you can’t afford to let a single one drop.
And so….you FORCE yourself to get through the day, relying on caffeine and sugar to perk you up.
You’ve invested a lot of time and money, trying to “fix” your brokenness.
But at the end of the day, nothing seems to change…
DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU?
🤍 You want to feel deeply desired and magnetic, learning how to switch out of CEO Boss Babe energy into strong feminine energy that attracts instead of repels
🤍 You want to feel safe to relax AND grow, connected to the pleasure of the present moment so you can fully savour all the goodness in your life
🤍 You’re craving to feel connected, truly seen, and deeply supported in your relationship
🤍 You’re tired of feeling depleted and overwhelmed, ready to wake up feeling alive, energized and crystal clear
🤍 You want to feel like yourself again, and find that spark that reignites your passion for life
THE COST OF OVER-FUNCTIONING, OVER-GIVING AND OVER-WORKING IS TOO HIGH
When being everything for everyone leaves you with nothing
The truth is, women today are under more pressure than ever – and it’s leaving us gasping for air.
Antidepressant use has jumped 30% over the last decade, and anxiety disorders have risen by 25% in the past 5 years (2x faster than men).
Long-term stress is fuelling a rise in chronic diseases like heart issues and stroke. And there’s been a 40% increase in women seeking sex therapy in the last 5 years, due to a serious lack of sexual satisfaction and desire.
Not to mention the impact of increasing rates of loneliness, which can be as dangerous as smoking 15 cigarettes a day.
WHAT’S GOING ON HERE?
The Lie We’ve Been Told – The More We Have, The Easier It’s Going To Get
This is feminine burnout.
– and at its core is “good girl” conditioning that teaches us to check all the boxes, ignore our own limits, and say YES at all costs.
The result? “Superwomen” are becoming yin deficient – meaning, our relentless drive to succeed is blocking us from fully experiencing and receiving pleasure.
We have become hungry ghosts…struggling to fill the void. Being told our “expectations are too high” or being asked, “why can’t you just be happy?”.
But the solution is not as simple as popping a pill, going to therapy, or hitting the gym more often. And trying to figure it out on your own is only exacerbating the problem.
The answer is to get to the ROOT of the problem by plugging the holes in your pleasure tank, freeing yourself from “superwoman” conditioning, reconnecting with your feminine power, and restoring your capacity to give & receive love.
THE HOLES IN YOUR PLEASURE TANK
1. Relationship & Intimacy
You feel so alone it hurts, and your intimacy has all but vanished. You crave a deeper connection and you want to rekindle that spark, but everything feels flat and unfulfilling.
2. Emotional & Mental Health
You feel completely drained, and your mood is all over the place. You don’t feel like yourself, and it feels like you’ve lost your passion for life.
3. Physical Wellbeing
You don’t feel or look like yourself, and you have to push harder every day to get things done. You have repeat health concerns that no one has been able to explain or offer a treatment plan for, that fits your lifestyle.
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- M.S., Entrepreneur
THE POWER OF PLEASURE
How I’m Helping Women Reclaim Their Lives
As a Naturopathic Doctor with 2 degrees and over a decade of experience, helping 2500+ women, I am a passionate advocate for women’s sexual health and wellness.
I’ve been where you are – a high-achieving “superwoman,” struggling with Feminine Burnout. And as a survivor of sexual and domestic violence, I understand the deep impact these experiences have on a woman's sense of self and well-being.
– That’s why I created The Pleasure Collective, an online coaching community designed to empower women with the kind of support and knowledge I wish I had 15 years ago.
I’m the author of The Pink Canary, a book focused on women's sexuality, and I’m a regular contributor to Cityline, Cosmopolitan, and The Washington Post, advocating for women’s health and right to pleasure.
My podcast, The Pleasure Principles with Dr. Jordin Wiggins, is in the top 2% globally, where I explore reclaiming feminine power and finding genuine fulfillment for better health and relationships.
THE FEMININE MENTORSHIP
Restore your connection, vitality & passion for life inside my elite 8-month mastermind & private coaching experience
*STARTING FEBRUARY 2025*
Why wait until you are hospitalized or have a diagnosis?
Why wait until you’ve had the affair?
Why wait until you forget what it feels like to be happy and alive?
My 8-month Feminine Mentorship empowers high-achieving "superwomen" who are struggling with feminine burnout, restore their energy and access pleasure, through my signature Femme Method.
The FEMME METHOD:
- Plug the Holes in Your Pleasure Tank
Discover and plug hidden holes in your pleasure tank that are draining your energy and vitality. - Free Yourself From “Superwoman” Conditioning
Let go of the “superwoman” beliefs and conditioning that are keeping you stuck and unfulfilled. - Reconnect With Your Feminine Power
Tap into your full feminine power to transform your health and relationships. - Restore Your Capacity to Give & Receive Love
Remove the obstacles that are blocking you from giving and receiving the deep, healthy love you deserve.
This intimacy mastermind will connect you back to your feminine power, and increase your capacity for pleasure, so that you can get out of survival mode, and enjoy a deeply fulfilling life.
This is a curated experience, created to guide you through the exploration of letting go of the control you were conditioned to carry, so you can lean into your deepest, truest feminine desires.
WHAT’S INSIDE THE FEMININE MENTORSHIP?
- 5 LIVE Monthly Half-Day Intensive Workshops
Join us for LIVE workshops that explore topics like sex magic and TCM secrets to boost your self-pleasure and intimacy, helping you nurture your well-being and build resilience. - 5 LIVE Monthly Skill Salons
Receive specific tools to help you step into your feminine power, like hip-opening exercises for better sex and the feminine art of slow pleasure. - 2 In-Person Retreats
Immerse yourself in transformative experiences like “The Power of Feminine Seduction”, "The Power of Submission" and "The Femme Dom Experience," so you can fast-track your personal growth and healing – it’s two years of therapy in just two days.
- 50+ Hours of Online Trainings, Handouts, and Meditations
Dive into a wide range of practical exercises designed to elevate your intimate experiences. Topics include extended massive orgasm, slow sex, and containment, so that you can unlock your full pleasure potential. - 1 Private Coaching Call per Month
Receive tailored, one-on-one guidance and support that will help you overcome obstacles, gain clarity, and accelerate your journey toward a deeply fulfilling and pleasure-filled life. - Group Chat
Engage with a community of like-minded women, so you can share experiences, receive encouragement, and build lasting connections that support your journey toward rediscovering pleasure and true satisfaction.
LEARN EXACTLY HOW TO QUENCH YOUR THIRST FOR PLEASURE
SO YOU CAN FEEL CONNECTED, DESIRED, AND DEEPLY ALIVE
What you’ll walk away from this mentorship with…
RELATIONSHIP & INTIMACY
- Feel desired and masterful with pleasure, integrating the power of feminine seduction in a way that feels authentic and actionable
- Discover new levels of intimacy and connection, finding freedom in surrendering to the pleasure of the present moment (in and out of the bedroom)
- Release yourself from the chains of people-pleasing and fixing, learn how to fully receive pleasure, without guilt or shame
EMOTIONAL & MENTAL HEALTH
- Strengthen your emotional resilience, so mood swings and b%tchy blowups become a thing of the past
- Reclaim your inner spark, and feel like yourself again – light, playful and full of life
- Reconnect with your creativity, tapping into new levels of inspiration and flow
PHYSICAL WELLBEING
- Wake up feeling rested and energized, like you can cross items off your to-do list, with ease (and enjoy your day a little more along the way)
- Break free from chronic illness and stress, feeling vibrant and alive
- Balance your metabolism and restore hormonal health, leading to optimized health and vitality
